EXPECTING a woman to have sex with you by the 3rd date is ridiculous.

109 points525 commentssubmitted by geyejoe7No Pill to r/PurplePillDebate

To start this post off, I want to say that for anyone who is looking to just have sex, this post doesn't apply to you. It's targeting people who want an actual relationship.

I see a lot of dudes, that are red pilled, commenting how you shouldn't keep going out with a woman that doesn't want to have sex with you by the third date. They also say that if she wants commitment before sex, that that should be when you ditch her.

All I have to say to that, is that you're gonna have a lot more trouble finding a woman you can be in a LTR with if those are your standards.

Just because she doesn't want sex by the 3rd date, doesn't mean she isn't interested in you. In fact you should be glad that she doesn't give up "the goods" that easily, to anyone that reaches the 3rd date.

If she expects commitment before anything sexual, that is completely fair.

They don't want a guy pumping and dumping them. Women tend to want a long term partner more often then men. So making a man commit to them is a good way to turn away men that just want sex.

The same dudes that want sex by the 3rd date also want the girl to have a low N count or to be a virgin. How ironic.

Also, it by no means implies that the woman is not "worth while". It actually increases her worth. More likely to be loyal if she wants commitment before sex.