Men doing the bare minimum when it comes to human decency does not make them a feminist

I’ve recently started talking to a guy who describes himself as a “feminist”. This guy regularly uses porn, gets off on incest porn and continued to watch porn throughout his relationships.

He told me about a time when he stayed over a friend’S place and she got really drunk. He seemed to think that him not making a move on her proved his worth as a feminist, even though getting informed consent should be the bare minimum requirement of any sexual interaction. I’ve noticed that SO many guys do this. They think they’re feminists, because they were able to control themselves , yet these same men are often users of porn, where women are raped and abused for their pleasure. I don’t believe any guy who says they’re a feminist, because, unfortunately, and partly thanks for liberal feminism, the word has lost its meaning. It’s easy to be a “feminist” when there’s a possibility of you being accused of rape, but if you ask men to give up porn they’ll give you 101 reasons why it’s perfectly healthy.

Just ugh. I needed to vent.