Hi FDS!

Newbie here! I've been reading this sub for a month now and can say it has changed my perception of dating and my choices completely.

I've been messaging two guys during this quarantine and haven't spoken to either in a week or so. I'm wondering how to proceed in an FDS mindset (if to proceed?) and how to approach the getting to know each other stage of dating during quarantine. To give some context of my preferences, I'm not a huge texter. I like having ongoing conversations with guys, but texting throughout the day every day during this quarantine will be a no go for me... usually I will have an hour or two a day when I will have rapid text convos while doing something else like email, cooking, etc.

Guy 1: Known each other for years and ran into each other again about a year ago. He really noticed how I changed, and right away said he wanted to stay in contact, and go out when we were back in the same place again (we are from the same city but go to college in different places). We have gone out twice in the last year, he showed HVM qualities both times (paid for dates, respectful, interested in my life, etc). This was before I found FDS so I was drinking a lot and stupidly kissed him at the end of the second date. This was six months ago (because college), we haven't seen each other since. We messaged on and off (he initiated) and are now in the same city but under stay at home orders. I responded to our conversation last, and he hasn't opened it. But it's on FB messenger, so let's be real, he saw notifications.

Guy 2: He reactivated his instagram recently and added me back, then DM'd me. I added him years ago when we were teenagers in a mutual friend group, lol. We flirted a bit then. He messaged me to get to know about my life, very attentive, respectful questions, mentioned face-timing at one point and seeing each other after the quarantine. After a week or so I became a bit tired of messaging all the time and just liked his last message, he hasn't sent anything since.

Is it FDS for me to reach out to either of these guys, or just sit tight? I do think both of them have HVM qualities ( I knew them both for multiple months/years in the past when I was much younger and not interested in dating), but of course haven't nearly vetted them enough to say they are "HVM." I would be interested in going out with them after this quarantine, but I just hate texting all day everyday ... I have online classes/jobs/hobbies to do.

Thanks ladies!!