Hi! long-time FDS lurker here. Just wanted to share my experience with this great sub! I used to be a total pick-me before I found this subreddit. I accidentally came across this browsing other parts of reddit, I was curious because people were calling this the female incel sub. How far from the truth that was!! Ever since I started reading FDS my mindset has completely changed.

I always believed men should pay for dates, but I started to think the bill should be split when I started using reddit. I also started to believe I should ask a man out, because I saw all over reddit that that's what men want. I can't even believe I used to think like that. Never again.

I am also a Christian so I personally don't want to have sex before marriage. But I thought mEn HaVE nEeds and maybe I should give up my RELIGION for a GUY. I would also think that maybe he could go and fuck other girls until we were married. wtf. I am so happy I found this sub!! Thank you to all the amazing women that share their advice and knowledge!!! <3!!