Needed reminder 💕

macguffin99 · 2019-12-07T01:40:03+00:00

Yep, if a guy is not that into you, and you know you have your act together (healthy, educated, been working on yourself), then the problem is usually that he knows he’s not good enough for you.

That makes him feel inadequate and uncomfortable, so he pulls away, leaving you confused.

It’s frustrating, but you just have to accept that he was not good enough for you and keep rolling.

Ms_Tilly · 2019-12-07T02:37:10+00:00

I absolutely love this. I had a really shitty ex. When I left, his friend's husband kept being weird and saying things to me like "oh, y'all just weren't right for each other". There's literally no way he thought that guy was treating me right, but he said that anyway. I like the message here. It says what I couldn't at the time.

snowvember · 2019-12-07T01:33:59+00:00

Thank you for this important reminder!

Scotsburd · 2019-12-07T08:07:56+00:00

Or maybe it's because he knows he can't sustain the act he's been putting on to keep you interested? Who cares, either way the trash took itself out.

Ryan89- · 2019-12-07T00:50:36+00:00

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Title	Needed reminder 💕
Author	Ryan89-
Upvotes	120
Comments	7
Date	December 6, 2019 10:53 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/e75yg6/needed_reminder/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/needed-reminder.687398 https://theredarchive.com/post/687398