NEVER lower your standards!

Sage_Planter · 2020-08-25T15:50:21+00:00

Queen Energy.

I've said it a thousand times, and I'll say it a thousand more: it's not like I'm looking for some impossible standard of a man. I'm looking for someone who is an equal. I'd be absolutely thrilled if I met a man who was similarly educated, wealthy, successful, etc. But no, I meet men online who are between jobs and living with six roommates.

Gambit12345 · 2020-08-25T16:54:55+00:00

I remember back in high school my male friend always told me my standards were too high. I only started dating towards the end of senior year, I wasn’t gonna date just to date until one guy actually wooed me. We had the same science teacher, different periods, and he left a bouquet of flowers from his parents garden with the teacher, who gave them to me in front of everyone for my birthday. This guy even painted me a pretty rose that I have to this day. My first bf treated me so well and even though we broke up since he moved across the country, it’s crazy how men I dated after put no kind of effort. My bar was high already but my first bf showed me what it’s like to be wooed. When you get treatment like that, anything less just doesn’t feel right. Only one other man in my 12 years of dating has ever actually tried wooing me.

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Title	NEVER lower your standards!
Author	EurasianEmpress
Upvotes	64
Comments	3
Date	August 25, 2020 3:02 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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