Ok I get we don’t like pick mes but I get kind of sick as a new member whenever I ask any question or make any comment women call me a “pickmeisha” or send rude DMs. Maybe they’re secretly angry mean men who knows. But the point is, ladies, please offer nice advice. Bullying new members like me or using insults isn’t going to help us. I joined this because I got out of an abusive relationship and I’m trying to learn. It’s hard to learn when people comment really mean things and say stuff like “pickmeisha bye” Like come on this isn’t middle school. If you’re a master of FDS then why are you here? To help people learn or to harass new members and call them losers?