Imagine giving birth to a baby and now you have postpartum depression/anxiety/psychosis.

Unbearable right?

Now also imagine that instead of supporting you through this terribly difficult time, in any way he can, your husband/boyfriend is continually masturbating to pornography.

This is happening. Yes, they are actually doing this. A lot of them. I know because I read numerous women's accounts on just ONE postpartum group.

Listen up men:

If you do this to a woman, you are a failure as a man. You are a failure as a father, and you are a failure as a human being. YOU ARE A FAILURE.