Power play

thighsmatch · 2020-07-20T01:10:11+00:00

Yep. Withdrawing and abruptly withholding intimacy can be a form of emotional abuse in a relationship.

Capable_Okra · 2020-07-20T13:43:22+00:00

Yes, back in my pickme days I had sex with 2 guys where I heavily initiated, offering no strings attached sex, and both of them wanted nothing to do with me after sex. One of them couldn't even get hard and flat out told me I came on too strongly. The other one either came prematurely or lost his boner (it was dark, I never knew what happened) and never talked to me again.

I was so puzzled because I was following all the Reddit advice of women asking men out, women initiating sex, etc! Now I am wise enough to know what the motive is behind that advice, and that in practice men do not actually want that.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-07-20T00:05:41+00:00

painmakesyoustronger · 2020-07-20T14:13:12+00:00

You can read about that in Why Does He Do That. A low value man that has nothing to offer will give you great sex and withhold it so that you are doing all the work and feeding their pathetic ego with the power trip they get to embark on.

This is why we don’t sleep with low value men.

FDSxMuffinVSrat · 2020-07-20T18:07:49+00:00

Lol. Happened to me with one guy but I don't think it was at all intentional. Dudes dick was probably broken from porn.

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Title	Power play
Author	DepressedAlien123
Upvotes	16
Comments	9
Date	July 19, 2020 9:23 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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