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Meninist's :

If you feel like a loser/shit/worthless/depressed..Get off your ass and do something positive about it. No ones coming to save you. Someone MIGHT hand you a pole. But you still have to fish if you want to eat.

Feminists:

If you feel like a loser/shit/worthless/depressed... Know that you have been systemically oppressed for ages. Though the women before you aren't around to speak for themselves and argue about their supposed oppression, it is advantageous for you to assume it is so and play victim and demand you be paid in hard cash for the suffering you never personally experienced. Conveniently ignore that your dad/brother/husband/other men are constantly doing everything they can to make your life easy and better and take to streets with bare chest and cry an ocean that they are falling short of what you want and expect.