It's always It's complicated, I don't know how I feel. The fact that they are absent in awareness without admitting their true intentions show a sense of secrecy. Why is there a need to be so secret and defensive? Are they hiding something? Are they plotting something? I think to myself, why are there people like this and it's not one or two or 100 or a million, it's almost infinite on the shear fact that this not only keeps happening but has happened to so many men before. True independence is understanding as a man, you can't "save them" you can't fix this. It's in their DNA it's who they are.

(I figured out who DJ Khaled means when he says they*)