Goals

MuscleCarz · 2015-12-05T20:07:09+00:00

What motivates our investment in goals and planning for the future, much of the time, isn’t any sober recognition of the virtues of preparation and looking ahead.

Young men take heed.

IMO, once a man accepts the folly of seeking validation from women and the larger group in general, he should develop a healthy life-plan for himself, with the following conditions and caveats:

If your Life-plan isn't REALISTIC, WELL-STRUCTURED and THOUGHT-THROUGH, you're not using due-diligence, doing your homework and probably setting up a shaky foundation that's not going to hold it's center over the long haul. Just stating, "I want to be an engineer," "artist," "millionaire," etc., is just the beginning. One must sit down, look at the big picture, break it down into realistic pieces and again, do your homework...asking yourself, how do I get there? How have others done it? How can I assure myself to enjoy the journey and not kick myself when obstacles present themselves? In short, do your research, think things through, then Sit down and write down your plan, with well thought-through, realist increments of achievement.

THEN OWN IT.

This may sound easy, but it's not--when it's done right--and trying to motivate many people into doing it the "right" way, i.e., doing it thorough, is like trying to pull a sleeping cat (that doesn't want to get up) off a couch.

People in your life (especially women) should readily discern in your demeanor, behavior and communication, that you make it absolutely clear, you will not deviate from YOUR LIFE-PLAN FOR ANYONE. They should see and know, this is a man who knows where he's going, why he's going there and how he's getting there. As they observe you on your journey, they'll sense that even when faced with setbacks, your behavior reflects the attitude that YOU HAVE NOT FAILED, but learned from the experience and simply move on. And of course, the priority of giving care to make sure you always strive to ENJOY THE JOURNEY ITSELF.

In my late 20's to early 30's I had a somewhat amorphous plan that I finally GALVANIZED AND OWNED in my mid-thirties.

Given the INSANE MACRO-ENVIRONMENT we live in economically, socially and politically, the central theme of my life-plan was based around choosing a vocation I would find enriching that would allow for a lifestyle of reasonably consistent comfort and more importantly, the freedom to not have to WORK TILL I DIE.

I have since finished training needed for my vocation, secured employment for the last 15 years, have saved and invested to the best of my ability, and most important of all, have made sure to enjoy myself along the journey, which I can say with certainty, I seriously doubt would've happened had I been married.

Every woman I've been with since my early 30's has known in short-order, I'll never deviate from my life-plan for her or anyone else, which I believe is critical.

My message to women (and everyone else for that matter):

"My sails are up, the rudder's in the water and I'm heading North. If you want to join me in my journey, great, but understand, I'll never, ever, deviate from my journey for you or anyone else."

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Title	Goals
Author	ss_camaro
Upvotes	7
Comments	1
Date	December 5, 2015 3:52 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/3vjt43/goals/
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