As life as on everything . I realised we act based on what realities we working with .different people different reality . Its sad that on many occasions one prevailing reality wins. One truth in life is that you gotta be perceptive of the prevailing realness. A blue pilled dude be working on that ideal reality when engaged to a woman whose reality is completely different. As u got redpilled u see a different reality to these interactions and u cant beleive how things roll that way and u was so blinded to see.