Any man who is seen as eligible by society and not married with kids is a wasted resource in their eyes.

It hit me the other day that the stigma derives from the fact that a man who is fully capable of providing for a woman and kids and who is not, is a wasted resource.

It is not that he is weird, mean, creepy, etc. It is that he is not providing what the overwhelming majority of society believes he should be.

It is so plane and clear to me now. Sad really.

But I would rather be seen as a wasted resource than to be a resource sucked dry in every way imaginable!