Hello I am a young man 21 years old. My mother, and Father who are both Haitian immigrants were never married yet they cohabitated for some time, they stopped doing so when I was around 4-5. My father has lived in the U.S longer than my mother and my mother The past relationship between my mother and father is a He said/did, she said/did thing. I don't know who to believe and there is no way to prove any of it it was the 2000's the dark ages.

My mother says my father and his side of the family was abusive treated her like a slave, talked down to ber, didn't take good care of me and my brother when we were in Daipers, and left us out on the street, my father says my mother was always angry, complicated and caused drama for example he bought her a bouqet of flowers for her birthday or annaversery I don't remember which but she takes said flowers and slaps him in the face with it.

However on the rare occasous I do hear both sides of the stories there are two common factors. The 1st factor is that they actually did attempt to get married. The 2nd factor is the the Issue of my mother's Citizenship she didn't have it while she was with my father, and this factor is another he said she said situation.

I There's no way to prove any of it because I was so young. I'm not even mad or sad that they never got together I've been able to see my dad every weekend, sometimes more than that and I was fine with that, others probably don't have that benefit.

Sorry If I'm rambling I thought I should set up some back story now to the main Issue. For some strange reason moments ago for my mother got into a conversation with me about my father, while she has said these things before over the years, she says my dad hates her, wants to see her suffer, hates the fact that she has a house, citizenship and Wants to see the worst happen her, my brother, and my self but this time it just came out of nowhere.

This conversation happened because My dad Is supposed to take my brother somewhere later today like usual as he's been doing for the past few months, but lately for like a week or 2 he hasn't been doing it, the reason is because he went to Florida a week Prior, and had recently gotten back. I have no way to prove or disprove if he ever went to Florida because I don't live with him, he's retired he could have just been home sleeping for all I know.

My mother thinks the reason is because he doesn't like of one of the dudes she accociates with, whenever I'm with my dad we don't often talk about my mom we just drive around get food and talk about random stuff if we do talk about my mom it's usually because she called him and he needed clarification on about what it was.

Then she says he is the reason why her 1st husband divorsed her after her 1st marriage because he kept pulling up at her former job at a hair salon to make her husband jealous, but he was only pulling up at her former job to pick me up because I was at work with her as a kid, and I remember asking her a few months ago if she initiated the divorsed with her 1st husband which she says she did I asked her because I was just getting into the red pill and I've heard that women will initiate divorse I needed proof when she married him she was able to get her driving permit and green Card.

I know I probably need more of my dad's side of the story but whenever the topic of there former relationship comes into conversation I try to dismiss it, and purposely try to forgot what ever each said and would Usually say

"I don't care What you guys did was your business, don't get me involved" but this time the conversation made me feel uncomfortable because she was making a lot of claims about what he did and how she can take him to court and jail for it.

I need some insight thank you in advance