[Last post for context.] (http://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/34igor/failed_shit_test/)

This weekend wife and I went to dinner one of her friends and friend's husband. Dinner was fine. Had a single drink with dinner instead of the three-four I would usually have. Wife actually had two drinks, which is more than usual. After dinner on the drive home she commented that I seemed distant during the dinner. Said I was fine and didn't know what she was talking about. I didn't initiate anything that night mostly because I just didn't feel like it.

The next morning I decided to take U+\BluepillProfessor 's advice and initiated sex. She was half-awake and initially I thought she would turn me down, but she pulled her bottoms down and said she was going back to sleep afterwards. I climb on and took her hard and fast -- literally lasting probably less than a minute. She was total starfish during the whole thing, making a comment about if I cared about her cumming I should get the vibrating bullet (I imagine most of you guys know what I am talking about). I was too close to stop at that point and just ignored her and finished. Climbed off and went about my day, leaving her to go back to sleep.

I figured for sure I would catch shit about just "using her body" later, but I she didn't mention it. In fact, for the rest of the day she was way more affectionate (non-sexually) and we kind of jokingly flirted back and forth the whole day. The same attitude this morning before I left for work.

So, mixed weekend. The sex was very starfish and quick, but things seem to have gone pretty well.

Obviously this is just one mile-marker on a long trip. I know that I need to continue working my MAP and increasing my SMV.

Any thoughts?

EDIT: [/u/whinemoreplease] is right that this post came across as supplicative. My question is how to get the sex to not be starfish? To a starving man even bread is a feast, but my end-goal is more than bread.