EM thinks she can swap her children's father as easy as she can her boyfriend

8,468 points246 commentssubmitted by PeKKer0_0 to r/entitledparentsSome hopeSome hope

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My story begins eight years ago when I started seeing my now ex(EM) she has a daughter that we will call Sally. When EM an I got together it seemed perfect except for one thing, Sally's Dad seemed to never want to see his daughter. Me being the caring person I am that was raised by a step parent gladly stepped up and became "daddy" time went on we had a son, more time went on and I started to see how manipulative she is and all around crazy decided to break it off with her. One month later she tells me shes pregnant and being the logical person that I am I know that babies dont save relationships but was there for her every step of the way during pregnancy and gladly have both of my sons every other weekend and holidays as well as four weeks during the summer.

Enter her new boyfriend, I notice my now two year old son calling her boyfriend daddy and after talking to her about this and trying to reason with her that shes confusing our youngest son it clicks In my head and I'm overcome with guilt as i now realize i was used to push her daughters father out of the picture and she is now trying to do the same to myself. Luckily he wasn't to hard to track down. I spoke with him on the phone about everything that happened and apologized over and over again for being blind enough to be able to be used like that and am now letting him see his daughter after seven years because I was smart enough to get a parent plan and his daughter comes over to my house with my sons. EM doesn't know yet but we are both taking her to court and doing what ever we can to get our children away from her.

Will update if people want and will respond to any questions and comments that I can

Edited a spelling mistake.

Thank you all for all of the encouragement! Will update as time goes on and unfortunately the family court system moves extremely slow. I will definitely update when I get the two of them together.

Multitudes of fathers every day are living the hell that this man has. I cant even claim to know how he feels because I am fortunate enough to still be able to see my children and his. This one is for you guys. There is hope for a fathers justice.