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Introduction

"The dating game is rigged" "Online dating is unfair" "Women are not worth the pursue" are some of the few popular mantras advocated within the manosphere today. More and more men than ever are relating to these statements as a reflection of their own experiences, while others are claiming them as if they are the whole truth. More and more men than ever are convinced that they have been awakened to this new reality, where dating is no longer fair and the pursue of relationships are no longer worth it. Consequently, more and more men than ever are rejecting the game and opting out of it for they see no hopes in a world where they believe the women and the society are the issues and not so much they themselves as men.

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Is The Dating Game Rigged?

While there are merits in the belief that the modern men hold, the sentiments towards the dating game in which they grow and possess have become more of a problem rather than a solution. Whether what is outspoken by the manosphere is the truth, half the truth or not the truth, there is one fact that all men must accept, that is no amount of hatred, anger or complaints will help, to change the way the dating game works, to change the way the women operate and behave and most importantly, to change the course of your life towards getting what you want and what you naturally desire as men to then live a proud, happy and fulfilling life

Yes the dating game is in favour of women sexual strategies with the rise of social media and dating apps. Yes the competition is more fierce than ever with the top 20% of men getting almost all the women. Yes online dating generally sucks for the average guy. Yes modern women are becoming more masculine and disagreeable and have little sense of accountability. Yes women ego and values are overinflated with the attention they got from simps and nice guys. Yes all of these can be true and are probably true, yet to simplify the reality of the dating game and focus solely on the discouraging aspects is not only unhelpful but unhealthy and damaging to the future outlooks of the men around the world

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The Reality Of The Dating Game For Men

While it is sympathetic for men today to be put in such a position within the sexual marketplace, there is no sympathy for men who curl up into their emotions and flaws and do nothing but complains and put hate into the universe. Understand that the game is not rigged against all men, but only to those who put too much focus on it, those who whine, wimps and complain, those who live a purposeless life and have nothing to strive for, those who remain passively as the 80% of men and never put in the time nor energy to develop themselves financially, socially, sexually, and individually.

Instead of taking action, many choose to live in passivity and comforts. Instead of levelling up, many choose to do nothing or things that make their life worse. Instead of finding solutions, many choose to cry, complain and victimize themselves. In any of these cases, their perception of the truth is what holding them back, not the dating game nor the women. The world will continue to be divided between the weak and the strong, the alphas and the betas, the successful and the unsuccessful. Those who try and put in the effort, those who rise above mediocrity and those who have goals to achieve, dreams to pursue and purpose to fulfil will be the ones rewarded with success and eventually with women.

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Conclusion: How To Move Forward

It is not good enough to be simply average. It is never enough to just be yourself and in fact, it is pathetic and miserable to live a comfortable and risk-free life like the rest of the 80% of men. This is due to the fact that it has never been easier today to be above and far above the average. The world has granted us the abundance of opportunities and knowledge, so with the hypergamous filter of women running wild, instead of being a victim against it, why not use it to your advantage to excel in the dating game and in life?

Yet that require you to develop yourself, both the externals and the internals, that is to believe you can do it, to be realistic but at the same time be able to dream far, to unite your dreams and day and makes your imagination and desires a reality that will ultimately fulfil your life as a man. Make small improvements along the journey, and focus on what important to you. The women will come and go. Only you are eternal. So how you live your life, how you build yourself, carry yourself and present yourself out into the world is what matter most. This is the only truth you need to know. Nothing else matters.