u/HornsOfApathy pointed out to me that men on TRP are generally people who have gone through divorce rape and cheaters.
I thought about how it would affect my husband if he saw me cheating. I mentioned how I thought about cheating in the post.
It's not in my nature to be sneaky. I'm terrible at lying. Even if I wanted to cheat, I would be wrecked with guilt and shame.

I started doing a workout regimen yesterday of running 5k everyday and doing this June challenge with Blogilates. Turns out a friend of mine texted me out of the blue to say she was worried about the weight she had gained. Long story short, we're doing the regimen together and also 18-6 intermittent fasting.

I brought up this plan with my husband. I mentioned how I'm going to lose weight (keep in mind I'm only 10 lbs over what I was when we met). I pointed out yet again why it's not fair to me for me to lose weight and he doesn't. Then I brought up the fact that I do get hit on while I'm at work. Against my not-sneaky nature, I commented how I might just take up someone's offer and have some fun.
Man oh man, it was subtle, but it definitely turned a switch in his head. He got way more affectionate and kind with me since. It's too soon to say if this is the start of some sort of a genuine change, but it's nice.
I will be lurking here on my main account.

Thank you again, u/HornsOfApathy for the inspiration.