How many guys in this community can honestly say they know John Mayer or some girlfriend who was obsessed with him? (Raise your hand)

Ok, so I started to play some of his songs and I could see why so many people would say he’s Hot. He can play an instrument. Right, so when I thought about some of the people he dated, Taylor Swift, Jessica Simpson, the list goes on, I thought why are these girls playing with a guy who they are so sure is gonna leave them like the previous relationship. Women aren’t rational.

Here’s a quote about his relationship with Jennifer Aniston.

“It’s been a deep relationship, and it’s no longer taking place at all. Have you ever loved somebody, loved her completely, but had to end the relationship for life reasons?… I’ll always be sorry that it didn’t last. In some ways I wish I could be with her. But I can’t change the fact that I need to be 32. Parts of me aren’t 32. My ability to go deep with somebody is old soul. My ability to commit and be faithful is old soul. But 32 just comes roaring out of me at points when I don’t see it coming. I want to dance. I want to get on an airplane and be like a ninja. I want to be an explorer. I want to be like The Bourne Identity. I don’t want to pet dogs in the kitchen.”

Obviously he meets all the requirements to be with the women he loves but can’t commit. This is a choice. I don’t believe love is a hole we fall into but consciously motivated decision to elect a person as the queen or feminine Role in our life. Shakespeare as said it and many have quoted him saying All the worlds a stage and all the men and women are merely players- they all have their entrances and exits. In other words don’t hate the player hate the game.