To put things into perspective, I (M 20) and my GF (F 21) had been dating/together for four and a bit years. Typical high school sweethearts, we wanted to move away and start our own lives after college.

Ok great, sounds like a nice bluepill relationship. Do carry on.

We decide to spice things up a bit and “open” up our relationship a little. It was pretty much a join decision but looking back she was kind of insistent on the whole “sex is fun” idea.

She basically considers branch swinging, but is afraid that chad may not commit and she loses her BB. Plus by making it open her hamster allows it to spin as she isn't cheating!

She is on a night out with some friends when she phones me and asks if the whole open relationship thing is still cool, explaining she’s met a guy (M 24) and asks for me to pay for a hotel because she wasn’t working at the time. I agreed. I tell her to go for it, and she does. She texts me to say she had a good night and that all was well.

She rang you up for money, not because she wanted to know if it was to do the open relationship thing. She was flirting with chad before she even rang you. You paid to get cucked.

The week after, she mentions she’s meeting up with this guy again. Wasn’t expecting it but I’m cool with it. Again, asks for me to pay for her hotel. A decision I would live to regret. She doesn’t text me the entire night. Weird, but okay maybe she’s just having a good time?

You are quite literally being a beta bux now, another man is taking her intimacy whilst you pay for it.

The next day I receive a load of messages about how she needs a “break” from “everything” right now. Meeting this guy has apparently opened her eyes. A little more conversation and we’re over. She’s completely cut me out of her life. I check her snap chat story, and of course, she’s with him. I’ve heard from her friends that they’re dating now.

Chad has finally commited. Now you are no longer needed. As they say a monkey doesn't swing branches, till it has another branch firmly in it's grip. You my friend have been branch swung.