Women jump on any weakness:

I took a few months off dating the last few months to focus on studying for MBA school and investments and got back into the dating world. With a few months off you become a little BP or Omega again. Let me say a few things to start. I am looking for an LTR therefore I am not that interested in hooking up, especially early on. However, your old BP self thinks girls will not effect you for a second date. She will like your personality, right? Girls attraction is likely 30-40% based on your actual ability to communicate and more based on your level of excitement. It's the idea that you are her captain and she wants to be guided. At least in the sense that she wants to see you show some social value. Essentially be fun . What isn't finished going to 1 bar and just talking for 1.5 hours

I had 4 dates this month and all 4 girls were excited to see me. One was super excited and 2 were mildly excited -I rejected the other girl but showed her a good time regardless - I was just not interested in her. I can read girls and people well and I can tell when they are bored. Also, I have dated and had sex with much hotter than these 4 chicks and don't have much issues getting dates but I have had issue getting second dates with internet chicks . I am also a kind of all or nothing guy so that if we aren't going to have sex then I am not very interested in making out.

Topics on failed dates

  1. Stock investments, politics, personal stories about how people behave,

Topic of successful date

  1. Talking about job and life goals, talking about relationships

The date were the girl is still texting me 2 weeks after despite no initiation from (shes a 5.5 though but skinny, I wanted to end the date right away but decided to have a good time to be polite) me. The successful date we went to a ping pong place after a drink. Obviously her being less attractive is playing into the equation as well.

The unsuccessful dates we sat on our asses for 1.5 hours before I either walked them home or dropped them off at a street corner and said at the end "hey we should maybe do something again" with their response "yeah okay"

  1. Conversation topics should be more emotional based not logic based. Politics, investments are bad topics if they are all you talk about

  2. Dates should be more active. Don't stay at a first place for more than 50 mins

  3. If you can do a walk or second active place it's good. My successful dates I do this but I was hoping I could just sit down and sort of relax on the date. It's a little frustrating that going on a date isn't very enjoyable for me. Being in one place is relaxing for me.

  4. Girls love escalation and you should escalate on a high point in the convo or at a neutral point to use slight kino

  5. Date should end with solid plans for next time you will see the person. Don't say, I will see you around. Ideally, you've already made out a little if not more so it's fairly obvious. In today's world you're gone if you can't do at least this.

  6. Girls sense weakness very quickly. And even if they are attracted to you they will lose 100% interest if you behave like an Omega or beta.

  7. Even if you don't really want sex don't be all or none. Show physical escalation because this is for the girl and not you.