I'll try to keep it short. I'm in college, I don't hang out with the guys, they're all betas. But I managed to witness what would prove me right. At the end, there's a "Lessons Learned" part instead of TLDR.
This guy fell in love with this girl. They're the same age and never really talked with each other. I believe he hasn't been shit tested and couldn't show his frame to her. Because for that, you know, they actually need to say more than "hi, how are you?". Don't you agree? He has been in love with her for over 3 months. 3 months, I tell you. He was always feeling down in class and very recently, asked me (who doesn't talk to the girl at all) to tell her about him, about his "pure love," as he said. I refused but I decided to drop some Redpill knowledge upon him to approach his oneitis with care.
His plan was to give up. My advice was at least approaching her and talking with her for an hour, see if he can see any red flags. Unfortunately he doesn't believe in TheRedPill
I was tired and asked him what he wanted to do. He told me he wanted to confess his feelings to the girl. I can't emphasize this enough! He doesn't know the girl, they never talk. I didn't stop him.
I asked him if he was sure and he was. "Deinitely sure as when the girl sees how pure my love is, she can't say no", he said.
He goes to the fucking library to take her out and tell her he's in love. He couldn't look her in the eyes, he couldn't even keep his head up. He mumbled as he spoke. He was rejected, of course. He was put down immediately.
Lesson(s) Learned: Don't be this guy! There are lots of things he said that would make this a long post. But I can tell you this. He didn't know no girl is special and they're all children. They can be a true bitch and worse, they can make you their bitch. The moment a girl knows she's special for you, she expects you to treat her like a goddess. Like in this case. The moment he was rejected, she asked him to buy her lunch AND BRING IT TO HER! He did. One last thing. He was justifying why she should accept him. Also, never do that. You know way better than me why begging is not the right call here.
The end.
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