I came across one of those memes the other day that speaks to TBP I think.

"The root of insecurity is that you are comparing your behind the scenes footage to everyone else's highlight reels."

This dovetails nicely with Chris Rock's "When you meet someone you aren't really meeting them... you're meeting their representative."

This kind of low-information comparison fuels BP fears and exaggerates BP behaviour.

Relax a bit guys... it's not as bad as you think it is.