Plates

It is quite evident that most men in the sub are more positively predisposed to spinning plates. All you need to do to is have a nice body and a few misleading , yet quality photos on your profile and women will be hitting you up often on the best place for getting easy sex and we all know the name of the app. As you acquire that , all your responsibilities are to set up that sex , give her the time and date and manipulate her into believing that you care about her , but all you want is sex and fun. She has to rationalize being a girl you use only for a physical need.

LTRs

Plates are easy. They don't require much from you. Having and managing an LTR is a whole new level of investment. There is a huge list of behaviours you should not execute with plates. Whereas in the long term relationship you need to know the difference when speaking of sex , dates and requirements. You fuck them more often than any plate. You spend non-sexual time with them. You do different activities together. The emotional tampon term we use possesses a new meaning inside such a relationship. In the end of the day , you are the one who has to deal with her worries , with her emoitons , stress , craziness and insecurities. You don't have to do this for free. Boss her around. Make her do what you want. Have high expectations , but not too much cause most fail. If she does a bad job at cooking your favorite meal , hold her accountable. In an LTR, the mixture of alpha/beta qualities is needed. Because if you tend to be too careless , she will find herself a male friend , beta or not , to take that position. If you have boundaries , you won't be a person to allow such occurrences. Tend to be too needy , clingy and you will have greater drawbacks. You need to always be on top of your game. You need to always apply different rules. You need to always disregard her bullshit. Remember , she knows you more than most. She will use whatever weaknesses you accidentally show. She will play games. She will try to weaponize sex. She will execute extremely disrespectful shit-tests and even gamble with her position. You need to always treat her different behaviours accordingly. And in the end , if she ultimately fails , you need to remove her and start all over.

Conclusion

The effort is big. The prize is not. Know your final destination.