Maintaining FWB's

JJMcgray · 2016-11-13T16:34:22+00:00

FWB relationship is not supposed to last. It's a stopgap. That's it.

People will eventually want more from you or another. Then the arrangement ends until next time.

You SHOULDNT be trying to make a FWB relationship last forever. Most relationships an marriages don't even last forever.

Not saying that's your goal. Just saying that each FWB you snag, know that it's on a short timer. Just keep replacing them.

throwawayurbuns · 2016-11-13T16:00:50+00:00

I find it hard to keep a FWB relationship going long term. People move on (LTRs), people get emotionally attached etc.

Just keep piling up your plates bro.

LordTempramental · 2016-11-13T17:37:36+00:00

Thanks Boys,

I know FWB's don't last that long. I am just trying to prolong the rotation because it gives me immense confidence. Having guaranteed hits scheduled all over the week, it just reinforces my abundance mentality.

But yeah, I am working on new plates. Hope to carry forward this inertia.

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Woujo · 2016-11-14T03:36:32+00:00

Here's a truism: women are wired to be attracted to ONE MAN and stick with him through thick and thin. Women that cheat or ride the cock carousel are having trouble finding that ONE MAN so they want to keep testing out their options. But once a woman finds their ONE MAN they will become attached. IF you aren't willing to give her that she will move on.

zboo1h · 2016-11-13T20:29:21+00:00

The longest I've kept a plate spinning was six months, while I was banging two others and actively gaming women.

You need to think of yourself as a business. You have a HR department. You need to always be accepting applications, because turnover with modern women is egregiously high. You CAN'T retain someone that tenders their resignation, all you can do is already have their replacement ready. Game those hoes, don't try to keep them bro.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-11-13T23:06:59+00:00

You have to keep the rotation going. I started the year with four primaries, and will end the year with four primaries, two of whom will be different from who was on the roster at the start of the year.

MattyAnon · 2016-11-14T13:11:22+00:00

I have lost 3 out of 4 women because they got emotionally attached. None of my doing, I execute the act with grace, followed by minimal comforting, no cuddling. Yet I lost 3 of them.

I've kept FWB's going for months and in a few cases years.

You want to keep a FWB around, it helps to treat her halfway between a ONS and a girlfriend. Nothing wrong with cuddling and comfort, so long as sex is included.

Treat her like a girlfriend-for-the-weekend. No money or long term commitment, but enjoy having a "relationship" for an evening or a day or two.

Obviously this will cause conflict and drama as she gets periodically emotionally confused - at which point you explain that you care about her but you are still doing what is agreed - non exclusivity. This drama/excitement/rollercoaster (and your strength in dealing with it) helps to keep her interested.

In short OP, don't be afraid to throw some "beta" her way now and again.

rep_movsd · 2016-11-13T23:01:51+00:00

Either I'm really lucky or I'm doing something right, because it's been about 3 years with my FWB

First 8 months was a regular relationship, and later we changed it to a non-committed FWB arrangement.

We are actually good friends, and the quality of the relationship has not at all deteriorated.

We are somewhat bonded to each other, but none of that "what does it mean" nonsense. Neither of us controls the others life or schedule.

snarlbuckle · 2016-11-14T18:47:02+00:00

1) If they want to leave, don't chase them. Hold frame. Buh bye.

2) Study sexual technique as seriously as you study the red pill, fittness, etc. Good sex is addictive to women. Most men absolutely suck at it, so you can get away with some serious bullshit if you are a god in bed.

My experience has been that women tend to play their games up until the moment that they beg for dick. I go full retard and rail them out like I'm competing in the olympics. Afterwards they end up laying face down in a twitching, leaking mess of ecstacy. From that moment forward, they act like they are addicted to it. They don't play as many games and they sure as hell don't purposefully do shit that would push me away. If I do get fed up with them and create distance, they come crawling back. Sometimes it gets extreme.

tldr; make her squirt until she's dry and she'll become adDICKted to you.

Atrophe1 · 2016-11-15T06:14:24+00:00

Friends with benefits is actually a misnomer. She isn't your friend. She's nothing more than a biologically viable cum receptacle. It speaks but doesn't say anything and it thinks it's a human adult. Do not encourage it.

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Title	Maintaining FWB's
Author	LordTempramental
Upvotes	7
Comments	13
Date	November 13, 2016 3:46 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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