I'm new to this, but hear me out.

About me: (you can skip this part)

In the past I've attracted women by being cocky-funny but still beta. I'm good looking enough to attract women between 5-7, but my beta tendencies always made the attraction fade out. I never would have thought I could do better, I was doomed to date ugly women who end up un-attracted to me after a year. By a total fluke, I've started dating what I'd consider a 9. I had my dog with me out for a walk and I asked her for her number on a whim. We went on a couple dates and I grew concerned on trying to keep her. I went to the most beta depths of my soul and tried to please her in every way imaginable. For some reason with all this extra attention she started to pick fights with me. I'd bring up all the great things I do for her, how much better I was than her abusive ex but I'd end up getting shut down any way. This went on for about 2 months. I found the emsk post and agreed with it at first, though I clicked on the link to /r/theredpill out of morbid curiosity. I was deeply impressed by what I had read and the general thought you guys put into every move with a woman. I learned so much that day, the pill wasn't hard to swallow. I knew it deep down the whole time. I had seen my best friend growing up use these techniques to have a 3 way with 2 of our LJBF of several years. Thats another super depressing story by itself.

Fast Forward to today. (start reading here)

I've turned my LTR into a Dom/Sub relationship. How did it start? Obey. We were at the grocery store and she started nagging me about some random bullshit about how clean something needed to be and she wasn't going to do it for me. I didn't realize at the time, it was a slew of shit tests. I looked her right in the eye and grabbed her chin to point it at mine and calmly said "Obey". Something in her snapped and she was quiet the rest of the trip and the way home. When we got home I took her to the bed, undressed her, she was dripping wet down her legs. The next couple days I proceeded to dominate her in every way possible inside and out of the bedroom. It feels so natural, I can't believe relationships work any other way.

The side effects of this have been amazing. If she has a problem, I unbiasedly hear her out or shut it down. I tell her exactly what the outcome of the conversations/argument going to be, she has to accept it. That said we don't argue hardly at all anymore. She cleans, cooks, runs errands for me without me asking her, before she'd consider these tasks too "domestic" for her. She marks me like crazy and feels like the luckiest girl in the world to be near me. She's told me she's happier than ever and looks at all other men as pathetic losers compared to her man, I am on such a high pedestal in her mind. I'm much more confident at work and talented in recreational sports. I'm eating, lifting, and learning more in my spare time than ever before. The only social media venue I even look at any more is TRP.

How did this all work out? I started reading this sub and tested TRP flirting with women outside of LTR. I never went in to get a number, I just wanted to see how I would be received. I realized I had the potential to spin plates outside of the LTR and that gave me the confidence to hold a "take it or leave it" stance on our relationship. Any argument we were in, I make it clear she's being unattractive and I don't have the patience for it. She's complained several times at first:

"I feel like you could just up and leave and it wouldn't effect you at all"

"Am I still here?"

"yeah but It feels like you don't have to be, or if this relationship ended you'd be fine"

"I can have whatever I want. I want you right now. If I didn't want you, you wouldn't be here talking to me"

Which is as far as I'll entertain her. Slowly through dominating her in the bedroom and shutting down these arguments I've dominated the relationship. I tell her where to be and what to wear. When she's with me she doesn't have to think. And while the western feminism culture comes up every once in a while it's just a giant shit test begging to be shut down.

"You can't tell me what to do! This is the 21st century!"

"I can, and I am. Obey"