There is a paradox in the dating world: the less you care, the more they care. To be engrossed in your passion is ironically more attractive than being engrossed in them. They want something they have to chase, something that gives them a thrill. It is boring to be the one that everyone comes to.

Therefore, I encourage you to pursue your passion, outside of women. Find what it is that makes you tick, that makes you skip meals in order to spend more time doing your passion. Find it, and lock it in. When your mind has a higher purpose than women, it becomes easier to get women because they want someone who they have to fight for.

Passion. It is what drives us. It is what gives life meaning. Women cannot be your passion, for they are fickle. My passion is in marketing and law. These two combined consume the majority of my time, and pull my focus from women to something much more productive and beneficial.

You can love someone. That's fine. But your passion always comes first. Let go of the women, let go of the feeling that you are going to lose them, and embrace the fact that you are a Red Pill man with a higher purpose. That purpose, that is what drives you. That is why you get up every morning. If you were to choose between sex and your purpose, you'd choose your purpose. That's how committed you are.