Polarization is what defines a Man.

Choosing one side, sticking to it is the hardest test of faith I had so far.
It comes with re-wiring process when I first stumbled upon PUA in my teens and once again when I first visited TRP.

I came from middle class family , with both parents married together relatively young.
It was different time, different values.
Europe, socialist country , just for context.

Parents were highly educated (masters degree in engineering in that time was achievement itself).
I had access to PC , to quality technical books, we (+sister) were pretty much spoiled with gadgets, with information, we were never in need of something.
Father always helped me when I needed help with school anything science related, mother was helping with Algebra for example.

Can't say one bad word , they taught me to respect science.
They taught me to think about pros and cons , come to conclusion only when I have enough data.
They tried to prepare me for the world where hard facts win every time.

But as we know, this is Utopian world or sub-set of this at best.

This is why Nerds do not get laid and Chads do.
The framework of nerds is focusing on the outcome with as much data as possible, as many different scenarios as he could think of.

The framework of Chad is focused on getting answer or reaction here and now, basically motto :
"You miss 100% of shots you never take".

My first reaction on this kind of behavior was : "Those guys are utterly stupid, they didn't even thought about it and spewed their opinion faster than baby after first curry." In this nerd mindset , I couldn't understand, why those guys even when they did not know very little about any given topic, were so fucking sure.

We were on pub-crawl with bunch of people from social circle. Night went good, we had fun, there was no awkward silence, I was working on one girl, mostly just chatting , kinoing , I was on fire. Then one guy showed up and you know where this is heading. He completely put me out of the game. It was 7 years ago and only lately I got epiphany what he did.

He never said something uncertain. Never stayed in the middle.
The beer what he drunk was the beer he loved. Other brands he hated.
The brand of car he droves was the best brand.
He hated one music band, loved another.
Very clear perception what he likes and don't was presenting it with boldness.

The girl was in like 15 minutes completely focused on him and I guess they fucked that night.

Women don't want deep analysis. They don't give a fuck. They want clear direction. Clear presentation of emotion.

I hated that guy because my ego.(At least I started polarize here even unconscious :) )

Now I understand and I respect his skills now.

I am open for discussion, go on, tear this theorem apart.