Summary:

To lust is to act out of starvation. This is a needy, craving, and unattractive motivator. To have a sexual appetite is to act out of choice. This is a healthy and attractive motivator.

Body:

I've been doing a lot of introspection the past several months regarding human sexuality and how to improve my own sexual strategy. A few days ago I came to a conclusion that I feel has benefited my mental health and freed my head-space for game.

After being misled my whole life and finding the cruel truths of woman's deceptive nature, I like many other TRPers reciprocated onto the opposite ends of the extremes. I craved sex. I yearned for the carnal desires of a woman. I wanted what I felt had been withheld from me like a hungry child running free into a buffet of poon. I've pulled in a few women that I can count on my fingers yet I was not satisfied. In my 23 years of life of living one way, I expected to apply myself and rake in babes in one years time. Hah!

They say "a man's body is a temple". Then I say, "a man's health is a crop field".

The bountiful fruits of labor and care to the crop only yield after so much time has passed. You cannot force tomatoes to grow. They grow when they are ready. And how plump and red they will be when the soil & fertilizer is grade (health), the weather (emotion) is sound, and the farmer has tended to the parasites and cared for the land (routine)!

Using this same analogy, the women which we game are our seeds which we plant in our land's soil. If our soil is not good, if the weather is not sound, then how will our plants grow? In other words, why would a woman be willing to spread her lovely legs for us?

Lust is synonymous with "being consumed with desire for, find sexually attractive, crave, covet, ache for, burn for, etc." What does that sound like? Starvation.

Lust is the craving for wanting and taking. Women lust. Women take. Men can create and provide value. When we (men) lust, our sexual stomachs are starving, our outward demeanor's skin is frail, the veil into our soul's are eyes show that they are sunken and devoid of nutrition. It's no wonder women wouldn't feel ready, comfortable, or excited to allow me to harvest them.

Having a healthy sexual appetite means not letting the goal "getting laid" drive us and our every waking thought to the point of exhaustion. It should always be an option for the taking, an abundance mentality, that if we so do choose we can heartily indulge in. And when we indulge we should have a merry time. Much like a crop field with grade soil (health), with a dedicated and proud laborer (you), in the best weather (head space) will produce bountiful and luscious crops. The plant seeds will grow. In other words, women will see offered value and fertility and will have sex with you.

In Short:

If you are like I was and let the anger phase fuel you, keep in mind, that lust may be keeping you back too. It took years to make the crop field you currently have and TRP is the guide to show you how to make the best fields yield the best and most fruits. It will also take time to grow and expand.