It seems like every week there's another guy asking me for advice on picking up women. What do you say? What line do you use? I always say the same exact thing.

It doesn't matter what you say, only what she thinks. She will think about everything only how it pertains to her, and it's her opinion that matters. There's good news, though. She's impressionable. This opinion can be crafted like clay in your hands.

BUT HOW?!

Weren't you even listening? You become what she wants. You work, you understand her desires and what she's looking for (usually someone to take responsibility for her) and you use them to be everything she has ever wanted, but will never fully have.

NEVER FULLY HAVE?! BUT I WANT TO MARRY THIS GIRL!

Alright, bud. Lets take a step back. Forget women. What do people want? Deep down. We want our life to have meaning, purpose. We need something to drive towards, that's what keeps us excited. Women need the same in you, they need to feel they are working towards their goal.

So I should just act like a dickhead and slowly get nicer?

No, you moron. You don't actively insult women, you just be honest about things. Brutally honest, tell her when she's boring you. You don't have to say it rudely, you shouldnt even direct the sentence at her, half the time. See, women have a balance in their opinion of you. It goes Nice guy - Interesting - Asshole. Every one has a different cut off point, but you want to hit that sweet spot, because once she lumps you into the asshole category, you only have about 10 more chances before she takes the friend zoned guy's advice and breaks contact with you.

In summary, the key when it comes to keeping your plates spinning is simply understanding women. Not listening to the things they say, because almost all of them just say they want a nice guy, but understand from their actions and your previous experience what it is that they truly want, and then be that, at least for a few months until you get bored with them.