Intro

This is in response to /u/BusyHearing post.

"my_case_against_game_and_against_pua"

Inner Game

Inner game is the core of everything. Without inner game you are weak. You need to build up self confidence, self love to be able to approach women and life in general. You cannot stare at the face of Chaos with out being confident in yourself. There is a reason why PUA and other people say you should "walk into a room like everyone wants to suck your dick" you need to have that frame of mind. People can feel that vibe off you if you internalize it. If your worried about your looks and what other people think of you your fucked. That’s why IDGAF is necessary. It frees you from the thoughts of others. You take risks when you DGAF. You cant have good frame if your inner game is not built up.

Outter Game

This sub constantly frets on how outter game is bullshit. Its all PUA tactics. You just need to be high value. Etc etc. Im going to explain to you why outter game is not some cheap PUA trick. It’s a part of you. Its something you should master. There is a reason why in the side bar it says that if out of the 3 being Money, Looks, Game, if you were to only have one of these have GAME.

Game and Bitches

Here is where many of you will say game is bullshit. You're wrong. Game is what you need to pick up a bitch. Even Brad Pitt needs game. Let me explain. I myself am NOT what girls finger themselves to at night. I'm short 5'5) and bald with a beard. Ive always been in decent shape. Started lifting 2 years ago and look a lot better. When I grew up in high school I wasn’t no incel. I was able to pull but I fucked up several opportunities because of being nervous to make a move.

I had a lot of ups an downs in my 20s. I struggled a lot after studying engineering. I became way too logical for my own good. I couldn’t connect with people. I didn’t make as many friends as I use to. I was constantly arguing with people. I knew I was doing something wrong. Fast Forward to a Vegas trip I had went on. This was before I even knew what TRP was or game for that matter. I had hooked up with a few chicks there but there is one in instance in particular to me highlights why game is important. On my last night in Vegas I was at the rooftop party at the Marquee at night. I was with my boys dancing having a good time. I went to get a drink and noticed some girl in a VIP area. It was blocked off with a velvet rope. I made eyes with this hot chick in the VIP section but she clearly was on a date with some tall good looking white dude. I kept doing my thing. I end up being next to the VIP section again and notice the bored look on this chicks face. She is standing now. We make eyes again. Instinctively I put out my arm as to signal to her to grab it and come over the velvet rope. She follows to my surprise. We start to dance a little bit and laugh. I led her to the bar and had a drink with her. Made some jokes. At some point my hand was on her lower waist. We had a little make out session. 5 minutes into it ass grabbing and all some guy behind me slaps the fuck out of some girl he was with. He hit her so hard she fell on the floor. I went into white knight mode and shoved the guy. The bouncers swooped in real fast and managed to kick me out of the club. I didn’t get to F close obviously but the point is there had to be some kind of game in what I was doing to manage getting that girl to make out with me while she was with some dude.

You can argue I was being high value or whatever the fuck but realistically I did everything that is thought in game with out realizing it. It was natural. What separate's game from the fraudy PUA shit is that your trying to evolve your natural game. When you first start it may seem tactical but it should be internalized and become natural. The only difference now is that instead of things "just happening" you know how to handle situations better. You know what a girl wants and you know how to give it to her. Sometimes you lose even high value dudes don’t always get what they want. Now if you do lose you can think about what you did wrong or you can just keep it moving. There is no real disappointment. You can stop wondering why the jerky alpha dude fucks some girl that you have tried fucking with your niceness.

You don’t need a whole lot of game to bang a bitch. Game becomes even more critical in a LTR. Why do you think there are "Alpha" dudes who get married but eventually get divorced because their wife got bored of them? They stopped being the dude she first met. No matter how much stability you provide the tingles will go away if you don’t keep your game up to par no matter how good you look or how rich you are.

I should make it clear I do not endorse the fraudy bullshit PUA that’s found all over the place now at days. I am still a big fan of old school RSD. That mixed with some Red Pill is a deadly force.

Game and Dudes

Dudes can be gamed just as well as women. Your not trying to fuck them unless you are gay but connecting with others and cultivating a social circle is key. Most dudes don’t think of this because most of their friends are people they share commonalities with. It works. But you can connect with a wider range of people if you can get them to feel comfortable around you. Making outlandish jokes and passing group shit tests are a way of doing that. Teasing guys works just as well as teasing women. If you can do this you can easily start to identify who is the weak person of the group. The person who fails teases and shit tests being handed out by you. If you play your cards right people fall into your frame and do whatever it is that YOU want to do.

Game and Business

Game works the same way here just as well. If your working for someone else The 48 Laws of Power as many others have pointed out is a good way to move up the ladder. Being socially savvy has its benefits in this as well. If people like you and higher ups like you because of your personality it goes a long way. You start making contacts. People like how charming and funny you are. You start to fall into their good graces. This is worth more then being the most skilled engineer. Its harder to find people who are socially savvy and that can fit into a group then someone who is good at a skill.

On the flip side of that if you run your own business getting clients is all about the sales pitch. For example I started running my own consulting business. I gamed all my clients into paying me $1500 - $3000 a month to take care of their network. The reason they swipe their credit card into my bank account every month is because they LOVE ME. They feel like they know me. They feel comfortable and safe. On top of being good at what I do. You cant do that with out good game. Its funny how much of game and The Red Pill applies to business. I seen guys in the same line of work deal with the shit of clients for shit pay and take big losses. I cut those clients loose. They are not worth my time. They are like a girl that doesn't behave well. Always know when to walk away.

Summary

Game can be applied everywhere. From fucking bitches to making friends to getting clients to grow your business. Its foolish to think game is just PUA trickery. It’s the most powerful tool in the tool box. Master it.