I know that this isn't meant to be taken exactly or literally but as a way to measure investment

what happens if there are a lot of text messages from a plate/ltr? if she tries to initiate conversation multiple times a day and you only reply to 1 won't they feel like they're playing too hard to get and lose interest?

but on the other hand, if you show 2/3 investment you'd be talking too much. is there a balance?