First of all english is not my native language. thank you if you still read anyway.

Hey colombian guy here. So i have been reading about trp. I understand that i must do everything according to myself because i am the owner of my life (pretty basic stuff). i like being somewhat of an asshole and all that shit (doing the stuff i like and the idgf attitude and mindset). It feels good. To myself. But i have seen recently that this caused somewhat of.. misinterpretation on me i think. I stopped treating women so nicely and all that shit and i started flirting now. However this does not ensure u a women. At least not for me at the moment. Question is:

I dont do that shit just to be around some pussy. I do it for myself. But when being like that (like my true self), should i expect a lot of rejection, but at the same time a lot of acceptance (in terms of getting pussy)? in other words, the thing that only matters is how many times i try;? Eg: i am kind of dating with a girl, but im not really romantic with her. I rarely talk to her but i do flirt with her when i see her and everytime we see eachother i kiss her. I met this girl 2 weeks ago. But even after being my self i dont see her sucking my dick. Its not that im worried about like: "im going to fuck this chick or not?" No, i dont care about that. I just want to know if its maybe because my game is not good ( when i flirt with her she just ignores me but still kisses me, wtf?) that leads me to think my game is not good, or what other reason could be?