Dating a girl who is older than me for the past few months. Let me give you the pro’s and con’s:

Pro’s

  • she’s very wealthy
  • had a good upbringing. Lived in a cool city and went to a large fun school
  • cooks for me all the time without me asking
  • sex whenever and it’s decent
  • she’s in shape and has a six pack
  • has a great job
  • has great friends, many of who are well known in professional sports and music industries
  • we get along well

Cons

  • I’m not as sexually attracted to her as I have been with other girls. I still like to go out and look around at any chance I get
  • I have little feelings toward her. If she told me today that she was done with me and never wanted to see me again, I wouldn’t bat an eye.
  • she’s 33, im 28

I need advice if others have encountered this situation. She is thinking very long term with me. I know that if I were to stay with her I would have a great life and there would be less of a chance for her to cheat. Have you dated and married down with it being successful? I feel like I have so much more time to have my fun and don’t want to think back one day thinking I missed out.