Hey,

Been hooking up with a chick for a couple weeks now. Last night, after we had sex, she said she had an awkward question which was:

"Is it okay that with you that I'm seeing other people?"

No big deal was my response! Which was my authentic answer. I really don't care.

She went on to describe the other guys she was seeing. So I decided I should tell her about the other girls I'm seeing, which I described in detail. It was interesting how fast she changed when I demonstrated she wasn't the only girl in my life.

She began to kiss me, grasp me, bite my ears, lick my neck, you know the rest.

Then she hit me with I like to be monogamous once I start having sex with someone.

I have a couple interpretations:

  1. She was looking for my leadership in defining what exactly our relationship is.
  2. She is trying to push me towards an LTR despite the fact that we've known eachother less than a month.

Whats your take?