Hey whatsup guys.

Where do you guys get your feeling of fulfillment?

My purpose right now is to be the best man that I can be within my means.

I am doing pretty well in all aspects of life except for with women. But I find that I have a hard time feeling good about myself unless I am doing good with women.

I don’t know how to stop looking for validation from my achievements with women and start taking my validation from my other endeavors.

Like for example, yesterday I hit a new shoulder dumbbell press PR and it felt good, but not for too long. The fact that a girl is probably going to flake on our date tonight is more so on my mind and effecting my mental. For some reason I am taking it personal, like she is rejecting ME.

How do I take my mind off the things that I can’t control and put them more onto the things that are in my control.

I’ve been reading about stoicism but how do we put it into actual practice.