hi, all my life i always approached solo. The only time i had male help was when my group of friends knew a girl and introduced her to me. However, during night game I prefer approaching solo because of two reasons: I am comfortable approaching groups of women alone (and able to entertain them all, with eventually focusing on the girl im trying to bang) and the second reason is that when I go with a group of friends, it just feels very obvious to me (and probably the girls too) that we are there just to hit on them in hopes of fucking them.

I tried being a "wingman" a couple nights ago and the guy couldnt hold a conversation for a whole minute. In fact he managed to tell her something that brings our SMV down (we got kicked from our fraternity that night). Like this kind of lack of ability to talk to girls is also a big reason why I dont like having a wingman. Can someone explain to me how this wingman idea can actually work? (or like examples?)