I messaged this girl on snap, talked to her for a bit here and there so she can get comfortable with me and I asked her to hangout. She said yes. She doesn't have a car (she did but she wrecked it and is working on getting another one). I decided I'll just pick her up from where she works right after I got off work 4PM (we got off at the same time so it worked out).
I pick her up from work and went to a park. We walked along the beach talking, getting to know more about each other. I believe I saw her playing with her hair a lot and she was laughing at a lot of stuff I said (Stuff I wouldn't normally find funny and it was constant almost) After while, I forgot how it went but told her I'm a man of action and she said "oh yeah" and that's when I wrapped my arm around her and initiated a kiss. We made out for a bit and she pulled away. After awhile, she rotated her body to face me.
After talking some more, we moved to a new location and we made out a few more times, I rubbed and squeezed her ass a good portion and I can tell she was really into it. I pulled away from her and she noticed this and pressed herself into me to continue kissing. After a bit, she asked me "where we were going after this" and she really caught me on the spot. I never had someone ask me that on a date before and I told her I wasn't sure and that I like to plan things out and I was going somewhere with friends later on in the day. I gave her a suggestion we could go where I live (I didn't really want to because where I live isn't the cleanest and my room was a mess) but I told her my family is remodeling the place and they probably wouldn't want you to see it and they would want to meet you. I asked her about her place and she said the same thing about her parents.
Afterwards, I asked her if she had any ideas and she said not really (I live in a rural county so there's not much for entertainment) I decided to take her out to Outback and we ate there. The waiter came and she asked about the bill and the girl said we were splitting it. After that, I took her home, it was around 9PM. She didn't want me to get out of the car because she didn't want her parents seeing her with a guy (Guess she didn't want her parents to find out she went somewhere in a strangers car) and we hugged and kissed.
The next day, I messaged her something playful around 3PM that we talked about on the date and got a good response. After talking, here and there every 10 min, I asked her when she was available next week and she replied "I'll let you know!", I typically don't like that answer but I told her I had an idea on what we will do and she asked what and I told her I can pick her up and we can chill at my house for a bit and afterwards, we can go kayaking with my 2-seater at this place. She told me that's an idea! and I replied "I'm gonna need your big muscles to help me carry it lol" (She's really tiny and I poked a little fun at her about it on the date) and she read it and didn't reply back.
My question is, should I message her here and there since I've been on a date with her already? Should I just stop replying to her and wait until she gives me a date and time when she's available? I haven't messaged her at all today, should I send her a message this evening asking her how her day was? Should I just not say anything today until tomorrow and I ask her about her day? I believe she was showing a good amount on interest but maybe she's just old fashioned and has the guy make the moves?
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