Hi,

TRP isn't new to me, but only recently really started applying the basic principles in life. 

So, I’ve met this girl in a hostel recently. She’s engaged but clearly signalized that she wants to hop back on the cc, as she wants to “get to know herself and experience life more”. She wants to go travel, as I am doing since February.

Second night I see her we’re both a bit drunk and end up making out, fingering her was the only barrier she didn’t let down. 

We talked for hours, laughed, I teased her decently and did most things right IMO. 

As I live in the hostel right now she asked me “how many girls have you done this before here?”. I was asked this question before and answered “no one” like my old beta me. Now I answered “I lost count” which kinda triggered her. The attraction wasn’t gone, but I could feel a real shift in the energy between us. She forgot a while after but I couldn’t get her in my bed. 

What’s your go-to answer for this question?

Also, what about giving massages when not in bed yet? I’ve always been good at it intuitively and enjoy making the girl I make out with feel good. How far should I go to not give her too much? I got to the point that pressuring spots on her spine made her moan, is that too far?

I’m a bit annoyed that I couldn’t fuck her, but thankful for the learning experience. In the past I had the mindset of “never steal another man’s woman”, but I’m slowly but surely dropping that.