Hey guys, hope this is the right place for this question, didn't want to go to the usual "tip of my tongue"-type subs because they are even less likely to know what I'm talking about. At least here's a chance as both have been linked on the main TRP sub.

I'm looking for two things:

  1. Was, I think a forum conversation with a STEM professor, who talked about the problems with dating that he had in his late twenties. He talks about the gap between the "gentleman" that you're supposed to be and the "animal" that women need you to be to find you attractive. He goes on to describe how he nearly got a chemical castration just to suppress his sexuality because he was so overwhelmed by the whole situation although he did end up finding a way to date and meeting his now wife.

  2. Was a book written by a MtF-Feminist. It is heavily criticized in Feminist circles because essentially what he/she is saying boils down to "Yeah, if you women wouldn't reward men for being aggressive animals by actually sleeping with them then you wouldn't have the problem of men being aggressive animals" (my words)