Hello,

So, I'm fairly new to living a more red-pilled lifestyle, and I'm looking for some advice.

A couple of months ago, I made a "there's this one girl" post in here, and I was told I had oneitis. As painful as it was at the time, cut that one off.

I'm trying to maintain abundance mindset, and I've actually got a couple plates on the go at the moment. I met a good looking girl in Edinburgh maybe a month ago and made good headway with her. Nearly sealed the deal, but came up just short. I've been messaging her a bit, and she's going to come down at the end of July for a party I'm throwing. Hoping to finish the job then.

A couple of nights ago, I got an unexpected "I'm bored, do you want to hang out" from a diff chick. She came over to my apartment, and I had her that night. I don't have that many local propects, so I want to keep her going (while avoiding LTR).

Thing is, good chance both of these women will come to said party, and the girl from Edinburgh will almost certainly be staying at mine. (The local one will probably go even if uninvited due to the nature of the event.) I'm a bit lost as how to come out of that situation without dropping a plate. Or should I not care about dropping plates? I would rather drop Edinburgh girl, as she takes travel and the local girl is on demand.

Working on getting a third plate in the mix, but that's a separate topic, I think.

Thoughts?