Background: 22yr. old, lurker on TRP for 2 yrs., n-count 14

Let me start off by saying I got pretty drunk and high..

Shortly after I got to the bar, a HB8 approached me and said “hey tinder match”, we talked for a few minutes and her (ex-boyfriend?) came up and interrupted us and said “back off bro” while looking directly in the eye... I was like “wtf?” Then I said fuck it and just went to drink with my boys... she came back to chat to me a little later but the vibe was killed...

shortly after I saw another girl (HB7) who I had matched with on tinder earlier and had talked to for a little bit over text. I approached her and introduced myself to her in person... talked to her for a couple of minutes then she said “I’m gonna text you” right before we split, and some dude just said “his game is wack” to her while looking at me, I was like “wtf?” again and just parted ways and went to chill with my boys

Honestly those two incidents fucked with me and I was angry and confused at the same time afterwards.. I felt like I should have defended myself and wished I knew how to fight so guys wouldn’t fuck with me like that. They weren’t any bigger than me or anything but I am just not the type to fight. I don’t think those two incidents changed how the females viewed me tho, because the HB7 still ended up texting me wyd at 3am (didn’t respond) and good morning the day after but I just don’t know if I dealt with the situation correctly, should I learn how to fight or could’ve handled the situation with more finesse through talking instead of just backing off?

Also I know not to ever smoke and drink that much ever again.