Basically this was a blog, it was 100% the best thing I've ever read. It was about breakups and a story.

The story goes like this:- There is a young man crying in the park because his gf broke up with him, so a king/wise man approaches him telling him he can cure his heartache if he does a few things for him. So the young man goes on a like a self-improvement adventure and he eventually falls in love with himself and stops caring about the breakup, the lesson being that because he is his own creator of joy and happiness he isn't hurt by the breakup and now he he as a new love - himself.

Obvs the blog/post was much more well written, but holy fuck that blog was a life saver. Got me through my first breakup and basically changed my life. I'd love to re-read it and find it again.