how do I bring girls directly to mine /go to theirs from tinder/bumble without having to go on dates? I’ve had some success in the past already but looking to go to the next level and be able to close like this everytime. I’m a 9 in terms of looks (6’3”, fit, good looking). What are the best ways some of you do this. I had success with “drinks and chill at my place?” But I am trying to remove alcohol from my life so don’t want to do that anymore. Any tips from the best?