I had a plate flake on me about a week ago, conversation here

I haven't had this kind of turbulence so early with a plate before and typically don't go on many, if any, dates with girls who aren't on a potential gf a path (she is definitely not). I will say that I've done a date or two with most of my plates that have lasted months rather than weeks.

I can see how she wants her fun time out, but I don't want to spend time doing shit like that if she's not gonna be a fuck buddy anymore. Based on the sex and general vibe, I think her attraction to me is retained and we can keep it strictly sexual, but I also think she wants to validate spending time together with more than just small talk and pound town at my apartment.

I do have some concern that she might try some ASD on our upcoming meetup, too. She's also getting a tattoo on her ass today and I think she might use it as an excuse to not have sex this weekend

How do I resolve her punking out last week? Do I need to swallow my pride, take her on a date, and escalate until I'm making her ass bleed? Orrrrr...are there better alternatives? Criticisms of text game welcome, but keep on topic with the questions, too.