Me and my plate used to have a great relationship. I'd text her ask her to hang out, she'd come up, sex, etc. and repeat. The last two times I've hung out with said plate though, things have been different. For one, the time between these encounters keeps increasing. But, now whenever I initiate kissing, she'll kiss me back and when I try to push further, it never works out. How do I increase tension and should I stop initiating if she doesn't respond well or keep pushing until she make it clear she doesn't want sex?