So a week ago I met this couple in a bar. They seemed sweet. She was cute and I admit I was making more eye contact than I should of. I did tell them they were cute together. He is from Eastern Europe, but an intellectual type working in my city. She asked if I had a GF and I said that I was not looking for anything serious.

When he went to the bathroom she turned to me and said "We aren't going to be together too much longer." Holy shit. I gave her an excuse to get her card (my friend has a senior position in her field and I offered to connect them.)

The other day I ran into her with a male friend (who has a GF). So she was all about me, but not going to look bad in front of the male friend. She tells me she texted him that she ran into me. He said "so you are with the womanizer?" She then told me he had been asking what they were and she said she told him she had not had the talk with him, that she only saw him a couple of times a week and it wasn't that great of a relationship. She also asked me if I still had her card and I said yes. I had to leave.

I couldn't find her card until today. My RP buddy thinks I ought to email her and say "is your bf gonna be mad if I ask you out?" He is normally good but my thought is plausible deniability might be a better way.

Any ideas on how to frame this? A lot of women want to cheat with me and I don't know how to close with the ones I do want.