I’m getting girls to reply to my messages and take me on dates, pay for dates and ask where I’m going when I don’t talk to them(soft next) etc

Here’s my question. How do you prepare yourself for success with women? You do all this shit at the gym and pursue a career worthy of taking a girl out for dinner or whatever and yet I find myself looking dumb like an alien from some planet that remember how he got here.

I give all this credit to my body for pushing and pulling weight in the gym. But now with girls attention coming so “cheap” or maybe I should say shallow I don’t think I want these women anymore so I tell myself there’s no fairy tale stuff here and this is about growing up. A real one on one pep talk with myself if you will.

You know those girls you wanted back then, now you’re hot they are all on you type of feeling? So you turn into a bitch and bitch about stuff that you would never consider important or women with vaginas wanting to have sex with you that say no thanks? Did you ever imagine shit like this happening?

What am I saying?

I want to have sex with these women but... I think I’m better than them. Even though I’m not this is highly narcissist. I don’t know how else to get women though.