Hey, very new to this...

Just wondering what it is that I’ve done here. I was out in a club, I DJ there. I saw this super hot blonde walk into the club. She was taller than me and to me she was the hottest girl in the room and the hottest girl I’d seen in quite a while. At that time I hadn’t discovered TRP. Anyway in my mind I had thought that there was zero chance of me getting with her. I went to the bar before my gig, she came up next to me, ordered a drink, turned to me and said hello, I said hello back and we began talking. It flowed fine although I was thinking the whole time ‘I can’t believe she’s talking to me’. She was telling me how she’s in a relationship but it’s quite toxic and there’s no live being showed etc... convo ended and I went and DJ’d and asked her if she’d like to join me to the next club. She accepted. We went there and as we were walking through the crowd, heaps of people from all ages came to say hello to me. She gripped my arm tighter. She ended up wanting to leave before my set as she wouldn’t have had anyone to hang with, I held her hand and walked her out. We kissed for a little bit and then she was saying ‘it’s a shame you can’t come home with me’ etc. I got her number. A while went by and I was deleting contacts on my phone. I accidentally deleted hers. Boom I never saw her again. That was until 2 weeks ago. She came into the club dressed in a red dress. I didn’t even recognise her, I just thought this girl was fucking hot and out of my league. She was even more smoking hot than last time. (Full barbie type girl, big lips, nose ring, amazing body, tall, everything I like) she recognised me and came to talk and that’s when it clicked and I realise who she was... okay so here is my question on frame... as soon as I knew who she was and that we had kissed before I instantly had a different approach. And that was, I know this girl likes me, I know I can kiss her, even if she says no now, I know she will. I know nothing she says will even matter because I know I’ll get her number again and that we’ll kiss all night and that one night we’ll organise a night when I’m not DJing or after I finish DJing to go back to her house and fuck... so she comes up and asks if I remember her etc, I say I do, we start throwing banter back and forth, I ask if she wants to come out for a smoke and she does. We begin talking and she tells me she’s still with her toxic partner etc. I can’t remember what I said but I remember trying to kiss her, she turned away and I said that’s alright, I’ll kiss you before the end of the night anyway... she kind of had a shocked look on her face as in ‘how dare you assume you can have me’. I smile and she tells me I’m way to confident for my own good. I said something witty and we went back inside. To cut it short it was about 10 minutes before I kissed her ad locked lips, and then we were making out all night. I had to go to the other club again and we went there early, we were making all the entire time there. I get her number again and she begins messaging me and Brit all ‘cute girl and submissive’ to me in messages... I haven’t hooked up a time to go around to see her yet, I don’t feel like there’s any rush with her and I know she’s still seeing her boyfriend (maybe I’m wrong and I should just make it happen) but yeah I feel like the whole thing for me anyway was successful... now was this all made possible because I held the right frame? I put my wants and needs above hers and no matter what she threw at me I kind of had this attitude of ‘keep being silly eventually you’ll get over it and we’ll get together like we’re suppose to’... is that what holding the correct frame is all about? Because I feel like she will never be able to budge me....

If that’s what correct frame is then I understand it, if not then feel free to correct me. Also, how do you guys pull this frame with complete strangers? I was only able to do it because I had been there with her before, but how do I put myself up on a pedestal with people I’m introducing myself to for the first time? I wish I could take that position with every girl I meet. Is there like a few key pieces of information you need to first know about a girl before you can take on that position?